Books as Teachers

We know that children’s books can act like both mirrors and windows on the world. Mirrors in that they can reflect on children’s own lives, and windows in that they can give children a chance to learn about someone else’s life. We also know that this type of self-reflection and opportunity to read or hear about different lives is essential for young people. 

Research on prejudice shows that coming in contact with people who are different (so called “others”) helps to reduce stereotypes. This is because when we see people who initially seem different, we learn about them and get closer to them through their story. The “other” seems less far away and, well, less “otherly”.

But while it may be ideal for children to actually meet people from different backgrounds in person, if that isn’t possible, books can serve as a first introduction to an outside world.

Diverse books are important because they teach. They help promote respect and empathy for all types of people.  They illustrate injustices. That is the power of a diverse book: You change everything for one kid, and you create empathy in 100 more. 

Especially during this time when school is out, books are able to impart crucial lessons. And they have the unique ability to do so over and over (and over). .

The website Embrace Race is one of our favorite resources as we work toward anti-racism in our families. They note:

“Research from Harvard University suggests that children as young as three years old, when exposed to racism and prejudice, tend to embrace and accept it, even though they might not understand the feelings. By age 5, white children are strongly biased towards whiteness. To counter this bias, experts recommend acknowledging and naming race and racism with children as early and as often as possible. Children’s books are one of the most effective and practical tools for initiating these critical conversations; and they can also be used to model what it means to resist and dismantle oppression.​

Beyond addressing issues of race and racism, this children’s reading list focuses on taking action. It highlights resistance, resilience and activism; and seeks to empower youth to participate in the ongoing movement for racial justice. These books showcase the diverse ways people of all ages and races have engaged in anti-racist activism, and highlight how race intersects with other issues, such as capitalism, class and colonization. The majority of books center activists of color, whose lives and bodies have been on the front lines of racial justice work, yet whose stories often go untold. The essential work of white activists is also included — to underscore that anti-racist work is not the responsibility of people of color; and exemplify the ways white allies have stood up against racial injustice. This list was curated by critical literacy organizations, The Conscious Kid and American Indians in Children’s Literature.”

Here are some more of our other favorites. Please, if you can, avoid going straight to Amazon to buy new books. Especially during the COVID crisis, small & local bookstores need your support. And, even though libraries are closed, many of them have apps for reading ebooks and listening to stories.

Library Apps: Libby & Hoopla

Our favorite San Francisco Local Bookstore: Blackbird Books

Marcus Books is the oldest independent Black bookstore in the country (they are creating a website for online purchases)

An incredible list of books to teach white children and teens how to undo racism and white supremacy from a bookstore in Georgia.

The New York Times created a list to get the conversation about race going early and often

Mother Magazine’s list of books that include persons of different races and ethnicities.

Many more resources for Talking about Race, Racism and Racialized Violence with Kids, compiled by the Center for Racial Justice in Education

Activities

Story Time with Mr. Limata https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC15_SZ8AWVaQDoF76zni9QA

Black Lives Matter Coloring Book printable 

Sesame Street Town Hall

Through June 19, Dottir Press is offering free downloadable PDFs of their books to support families as they unlearn white supremacy


Please comment here with any other resources you’ve come across that should be added to our list. Together we can continue to do better.

Surviving in Place

We’re all adjusting to this new normal and figuring out new ways of doing things. New ways to connect, new ways to multitask, and new ways to celebrate.

Keeping with our mission to support the healthy development of families through play, community and parent support, we’ve compiled some resources that may come in handy during this unprecedented time. .

PARTY IN PLACE

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Are you gearing up to celebrate a birthday? Here are some ideas to make it special (& support local Sunset businesses!) even though you can’t gather with family and friends.

This will be one to remember. Enjoy!

 

PLAY IN PLACE

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Play is critical to our physical and emotional well-being at any age. In stressful times, play can bring comfort and relieve anxiety. It helps us decompress and stay positive.

  • Cardboard boxes can become anything! A blank canvas, a hiding place for a stuffed animal, a doll house, basketball receptacle… anything And if you have a few, tape them together for even more possibilities.

  • Chalk fabulous because it is an outside activity, so you get a little fresh air, and it keeps the mess outside. During the COVID pandemic, this is so popular that chalk can be hard to find. An alternative is to make it yourself. There are several recipes out there that take anywhere from a few minutes to a few days. If you need an activity ASAP, check out this recipe for chalk paint.

  • Water. If it’s warm enough outside, do this. If not, pop the kids in the bath tub. Water is a wonderful and engaging activity for kids as long as you’re able to supervise. Painting with water, spraying water from a small spray bottle, and “washing” play objects will captivate kids of any age for a surprisingly long time.

  • Contact Paper. Tape a piece of contact paper, sticky side out, to a wall or table. You can treat this as an ongoing sensory activity (we just have ours up in the living room, and both kids come and go from it), or use the contact paper as an art project (create a suncatcher, with tissue paper, leaves, flower petals, etc).

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SUPPORT IN PLACE

  • FREE Baby/Toddler Sleep Support Group, ZOOM: Weekly Thursday's 10-10:30am PT and ongoing, sign up: jocelyn@angeliquemillette.com 

  • Simple Parent Strategies for Limit Setting (2-4 yr olds) During Stressful Times, w Dr. Juli Fraga and Dr. Angelique Millette, $15 ZOOM Webinar Support Group for parents- Wednesday's 1:30-2pm PT and ongoing, register here 

  • FREE 'ask an expert' Q&As for parents https://inceptive.org/coronavirus

  • free webinars about COVID-19 and pregnancy care, sleep and stress during pregnancy, labor and parenthood https://whrcportal.ucsf.edu/whrcmember/WebinarList.aspx

  •  Free childbirth classes through Evidence Based Birth during COVID19: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/birthing-in-the-time-of-covid-19/

KIDS IN PLACE

Resources for Talking to Kids about COVID-19

April News

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Hello sweet community,

What a strange time we are in.  First and foremost, I hope this message finds you hanging in there.  Because, we're all doing some really hard juggling and working to navigate this new, sloppy normal. The scale of this crisis, the scope of what it means for our families, our children, our health and our jobs is incomprehensible.  We're adjusting the best we can, grieving how our lives were, and trying to being open to what is coming next.  

Recess may need to look different after this is all over, but there is no question that we will need the opportunity to connect more than ever.   

Whether you're parenting young children now, are a partner of ours, or a Recess Alum, you likely recognize the importance of Recess for future families. If you can, please support us. You can join our High 5 campaign, grab an activity kit, join an upcoming workshop or spread the word that Recess is in need of support.  We are working feverishly behind the scenes to secure government funding to cover overhead and take care of our staff. But with all of the uncertainty, we're needing to pull together as a community to ensure that we have spaces to gather and support healthy development for all families once it is safe to do so.   

If 100% of you participate and help us out with just $5, we'll make it. But it really is going to take a village to keep our little village afloat.  To our current members who are sticking with us through this challenging time:  THANK YOU.  We're going to have an amazing party when this is all over. Get ready :)

Sending so much respect and gratitude to those who are risking their lives to help us stay quarantined ... not only the doctors, technicians, nurses and hospital support staff on the front lines, but also the retail workers, delivery drivers and multitude of municipal workers.  

I don't know about you, but the inability to connect in person is really rocking me to the core of my being. Even my completely introverted self misses the face-to-face interactions. Getting to see that I'm not alone, getting to feel the community, and having the experience of providing a space for kids and caregivers to connect who wouldn't otherwise cross paths. 

Zoom surprisingly offers some really nice connection during shelter in place. Just seeing other people's faces and getting to share experiences has been an unexpected treat.  This month, we have a selection of really great workshops offered online.  They are designed to provide some support for you during this time. 
  • Intro to Mindfulness for Parents and teachers - cultivating calm, clarity and compassion
  • Estate Planning Fundamentals for Parents
  • Infant Sleep Solutions 
  • Saturday Support 
I especially want to call your attention to the "Introduction to Mindfulness for Parents" workshop that starts Monday.  It's being offered for free to folks on the frontline and their partners.  If you're looking for tools to quiet the inner chaos and find the calm, please join us.  No one will be turned away for lack of funds.  

During this crisis we are committed to continuing to share resources and information that will hopefully help us get through it together.  Read on for some kids activities and diversions as you make it through this trying time.  We miss you all so much.  

Recess was founded on the fact that community is essential.  Now more than ever that is true.  Thank you all for being here.

Much love,
Lisa & the Recess Collective Team

Supporting our kids

some great resources we're using 


Activity Kits from Recess.  This week, we have a few more easter kits getting prepped to go out. Grab yours, or a Toy Bundle while they last.   Next week, we'll have some spring themed kits. Contactless delivery for all.  

Our favorite music, art & story time activities:
7am - Laurie Berkner Musictime 
8:30 a.m. (Tues. and Thurs.) -- Drawing with Toddlers, a short drawing lesson from E. B. Goodale (Under the Lilacs) (Instagram Live @ebgoodale)
10:00 a.m. (Mon.-Fri.) -- Drawing lessons with Wendy Macnaughton (NYT bestselling illustrator) (Instagram Live @wendymac)
11:00 a.m. (Mon.-Fri.) -- Stay at Home Story Time, a ~20 min. picture book read-aloud with Oliver Jeffers (Lost and Found author) (Instagram Live @oliverjeffers, uploaded to YouTube after)
a few more 

Daily—Live learning events from various Smithsonian experts including meditation, sci-fi talks, and art lectures. (Smithsonian)

DIY STEM lessons from the Exploratorium in San Francisco
YouTube Kids has a playlist of videos for families with preschoolers.  It's much easier than searching! 

Check out Red Tricycle's listings for additional updated listings.  

If you're attempting home school of any kind, you'll want to take a look at this phenomenal resource for families from Wide Open School. It's a new, free platform with resources for families & educators arranged in grade-level blocks with online content & offline resources covering academic subjects, emotional well-being, exercise, life skills, special needs & more.

Are there other resources you've been enjoying?  Please drop us a line!

Community Support

After every storm comes a rainbow

Give us Five!

When this storm is over, we'll need Recess as a place for connection and healthy child development more than we ever though possible. 

To ensure Recess is here for us when this crisis is over, please give 5! Either share with 5 friends or give $5 as a one time gift via venmo, or hop over to Donorbox and choose a $5+ regular donation. Either way, every penny will go toward keeping our mission alive. Set up a recurring donation.

Lots of other ways to help right now:

-Order your Easter Activity Kit. 

- grab a gift card (to give or keep)

- book your next celebration

- book the space for a mini party

- sign up for our NEW community supporter membership




- enroll in an upcoming workshop

- share this post

- write a review

- set up a one time or monthly tax-deductible donation

- send us love notes

Parent Support

YOU are doing some insanely hard things right now. Those kids keep growing and will benefit from your ability to connect with them, bring calm and perspective, and stay healthy. Join us for support and an opportunity to connect virtually with other families.  Remember, we're all in this together. 

April online classes

 
  • Introduction to Mindfulness for Parents 5-week class begins (pay what you can)  4/13
  • Infant Sleep (0-12mo) - online  4/18
  • Emotionally Intelligent Discipline - online  4/21
  • Estate Planning Fundamentals for Parents- online 4/24

SATURDAYS:
  • 10am Expecting Parent Groups 
  • 11am Not-so-new Parent Groups (ages 0-3yrs)

Private offerings

 

* Breastfeeding support
* Newborn Care
* Childbirth Prep Refresher & Sibling Preparation


Shoot us an email or check out the website to enroll 

 Mental health resources
See the Workshop Schedule

Activity Kits and Toy Bundles
are available for contactless delivery  

Buy Now
How to Wash Your Hands—and Other Gentle Lessons from TV Friends. 
In stressful times, calming messages are the best medicine for preschoolers. The disruption caused by the coronavirus pandemic can be especially confusing and scary to little ones. In these times, beloved characters from well-crafted TV shows can provide the reassurance, the skills, and even the vocabulary for kids to make sense of their new reality. The episodes linked below—all from shows vetted by child development experts—offer simple, age-appropriate explanations that provide gentle-but-factual info from TV friends kids love and trust. Whether your kids are at home or school these days, you can use these resources to help start conversations about how to stay safe, minimize anxiety, and even have a little fun in the process. 

Yo Gabba Gabba, ages 3+
A magical DJ and his life-size puppet friends teach preschool lessons through song. This colorful psychedelic series is high-energy and full of celebrity cameos. Watch the episode "Clean," where DJ Lance Rock and the gang learn about germs, how to stay clean, and the best way to cover your mouth when you cough. 

Ask the Storybots, 3+, Netflix.  Families love this science-based series where real-life kids ask the animated Storybots questions about how things work. 

Watch "How Do People Catch a Cold?" (Season 2 Episode 8), to hear the bots answer questions about how viruses travel, helped out by guest star Wanda Sykes. 

Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood, 3+, PBS Kids.  This gently paced preschool show stars a little tiger who learns new lessons every day, helped by his kind family and community.

Watch:  "Daniel Gets a Cold/Mom Tiger Is Sick." Daniel learns the importance of rest when people are trying to recover from an illness. Kids also get glimpses of real-life kids resting when they don't feel good.
- "Daniel Gets Frustrated." Lots of kids might be feeling frustrated about changes in routine due to the coronavirus. This episode shares Daniel's experience with frustration and how he deals with it.
- "Germs Germs Go Away." A fun video with a catchy tune about handwashing.

Doc McStuffins, 4+, Disney Junior/Hulu/Disney+ 
Kids love to watch Doc (who wants to become a pediatrician like her mom when she grows up) help her toy friends learn about staying healthy and happy. 

Watch "A Day Without Cuddles" where stuffed-animal friend Lambie has a sneezing fit on International Cuddle Day and must be washed before she can be cuddled again. 


 
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Hey you, get some sleep! Developing healthy Sleep Habits.

Infant Sleep Workshop and Q&A

In our weekly New Parent Groups, we start out with introductions, baby's age, and sharing some of the past week's successes and challenges.  Inevitably 90% of the parents in attendance share their latest sleep roadblocks. Sleep is tough for new parents!  Heck, it's tough for all parents.  

Expecting parents, you are invited to come learn how to instill healthy sleep habits while you can still absorb lots of information (pre-sleep depreviation). It is a super valuable gift for your family.  

This week, on April 18, we're thrilled to have Dr. Angelique Millette, sleep consultant (and mama) join us via Zoom.  During the workshop, we will discuss the importance of establishing good sleep routines, a regular schedule and consistencies for healthy happy sleep habits in the first year. We will discuss any current sleep struggles that you are having and/or how to improve common sleep issues; including naptime/bedtime/ overnight sleep troubles, self‐ soothing struggles, and others. We will also go over many sleep tips and Angelique is happy to answer questions...so be sure to bring them! 

Common topics include:

  • Baby (0–12 months) sleep needs

  • Importance of routines in sleep habits and patterns

  • Developmental milestones, when they occur, what to do

  • Guidelines on prevention of SIDS

  • Sleep methods: no/low cry, sleep training

  • Sleeping arrangements: co-sleeping, room-sharing, crib-sleeping

  • Naps

  • Feeding at night and dropping night feeds


About Dr. Angelique Millette
She is a parent educator, pediatric sleep consultant, family sleep researcher, lactation educator. She specializes in family sleep solutions and how parents can meet their own sleep needs while helping their young ones meet theirs.