Why we do it

Parenting is hard. No matter how resourced you are, raising a child can be one of life's most challenging and rewarding experiences. But parenting can also be a great equalizer - regardless of income, race, or education, all parents face stress and challenges. And when that stress becomes chronic and toxic, it can have long-lasting effects on children's health and well-being.

But there is hope. By building supportive communities and practicing positive parenting techniques, we can help to buffer the effects of toxic stress on child development and reduce the effects of stress on the body for life.

What is toxic stress?

Toxic stress is defined as "the experience of prolonged activation of the stress response system in the absence of protective factors." This type of stress can be caused by a variety of factors, including abuse, neglect, and poverty. When a child experiences toxic stress, it can have negative impacts on their physical and mental health, including increased risk of chronic diseases, mental health disorders, and developmental delays.

How does community support help?

One of the key ways that community support can help to buffer the effects of toxic stress is by providing a network of resources and support for parents. When parents feel supported and connected to others, they are better able to manage stress and provide a nurturing environment for their children.

Studies have shown that social support can help to reduce the effects of stress on the body, including inflammation and immune system dysfunction. For example, a study published in the Journal of Health Psychology found that mothers who reported higher levels of social support had lower levels of inflammation, even after accounting for factors such as age, income, and education.

In addition, community support can help to address the social determinants of health that contribute to toxic stress. For example, by providing access to affordable housing, healthcare, and early childhood education, communities can help to reduce the stressors that contribute to toxic stress.

How do positive parenting practices help?

Supportive parenting practices can also help to buffer the effects of toxic stress on child development. These practices include things like responsive caregiving, positive reinforcement, and setting clear boundaries and expectations.

One of the key ways that positive parenting practices can help to reduce the effects of stress on the body is by promoting secure attachment between parent and child. When children feel securely attached to their parents, they are better able to regulate their emotions and respond to stress in a healthy way.

Studies have shown that supportive parenting practices can buffer the effects of toxic stress on child development and mental health outcomes. For example, a study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association found that supportive parenting practices can reduce the risk of behavioral problems and other negative outcomes associated with toxic stress.

In addition, positive parenting practices can help to build resilience in children. When children have a strong foundation of positive parenting, they are better able to navigate the stressors of life and bounce back from adversity.


Parenting is hard, but by building supportive communities and practicing positive parenting techniques, we can help to buffer the effects of toxic stress on child development and reduce the effects of stress on the body for life. Social support can help to reduce the effects of stress on the body, while positive parenting practices can promote secure attachment and build resilience in children. By working together to support parents and families, we can help to promote healthy communities and positive developmental outcomes for children.

Resources for Parents - Winter round up

One of our favorite things to do is to share high quality resources. There’s a lot of noise out there, so getting vetted recommendations can be incredibly helpful.



Kari Marble

Mother of two and a certified yoga and meditation teacher, massage therapist, infant massage instructor, and birth educator with over 20 years experience, Kari is a

She is passionate and has an extensive specialization in the childbearing year. Kari draws deeply upon yoga to sustain us through all phases of life. Dive into her website to learn more about her yoga, meditation and massage offerings.

 

Happy Baby Signs

Happy Baby Signs  helps parents live with more joy by illuminating new ways to nurture, communicate, and connect with their children. We have been providing baby sign language classes since 2005 and have taught more than 20,000 parents how to sign with their babies. Our program is founded on more than four decades of evidence-based research and uses American Sign Language (ASL). We believe using ASL with the hearing population nourishes a more inclusive community.

Their classes are a fun-filled way to teach parents how to introduce sign language into their baby's everyday routines through songs and interactive activities.

https://www.happybabysigns.com/babies.html

A Fresh Start - 2023 January Newsletter

starting fresh. come as you are.

Hello, hello!

As the new year gets underway, we're looking forward to the potential -- the potential for creating new spaces for babies to play, facilitating groups that truly support new parents, and sharing research-backed resources to lighten the load on your parenting journey.

The power of just showing up, without pretense, is tremendous. We invite you to show up, even when things are messy, disheveled, and ridiculous (…especially those days). Having someone to share that with - someone who will listen - can help in so many ways. Artist, Carissa Potter, of People Involved, so beautifully illustrates this.

For 2023, our goal is to continue to facilitate connection. In addition to offering groups, Recess is working to create places to connect in new neighborhoods. More on that here:

Since we started working on Recess, back in 2007, I’ve been driven by the concept of space and how it can encourage and facilitate organic connection. Once a space is thoughtfully created (& it doesn’t have to be fancy!), there is an anchor for families to come, breathe and connect. 15 years later, we are really good at identifying the right furnishings, playthings and even parent ed resources to outfit a place where a parent can show up, let their child explore and have a moment. Our goal for this year is to identify 5 places throughout the city to build out for families to gather. We have been fortunate to do this at Raley’s supermarket in Folsom, and Andytown Coffee/Ocean Plant in the outer richmond neighborhood in San Francisco.

The dream is to create places for under resourced communities to have a 'community living room’ of sorts. A safe refuge designed specifically for infants and their caregivers to safely relax, connect, and get resources to support their journey. Maybe this is a space in an apartment building, in the housing authority, a corner in a community center or something altogether different. If you’re interested in supporting that initiative, if you have contacts in the housing department, apartment buildings, or would like to volunteer to make it a reality, please reach out!

Build (& reinforce) your village. Community is crucial. To your wellbeing, and to your child’s. We invite expecting parents to share resources, gain tools and build connections before baby arrives. And, once that babe is on the outside, our new parent circles are an incredible space for sharing the experience with others in the same boat. Check out our new groups below! Lots going on in January.

Storm Safety. It looks like the bulk of the storms are behind us…for now. If you haven’t already, sign up for AlertSF for real-time emergency alerts. Simply text your zip code to 888-777. SF72.org, run by the Department of Emergency Management, is also an excellent resource for regular condition reports.

As continue to evolve the way Recess facilitates community and connection, we invite your feedback, input and involvement.

If you’re interested in joining our team of volunteers, please reach out! And if you would like to support our way forward, your donation is tax-deductible!

Thank you for following along on our journey, and thank you for letting us follow along on yours.

Stay safe and dry, and take good care,
xx
lisa