self care

Self-care Day: Massages and Treats

Book some me-time and melt your stress away! 

You are invited to join us on Saturday, 1/27. Book your chair massage appointment, indulge in some treats and let your kids play in the incredible playspace.  It's the perfect morning!

  • 15 Minute Chair Massage Appointments available 10am-Noon on Saturday 1/27
  • We will have a Marley's Treats pop-up shop 10-1pm offering delicious cupcakes and cake pops for purchase to enjoy before or after your massage.
  • The Playspace is open from 9am-1pm, ages newborn-4yrs. Reserve your day pass & enjoy a morning of fun.

Chair Massages

In as little as 15 minutes, Synergy Massage & Wellness chair massage offers you a quick escape from your busy week, leaving you relaxed, energized, focused and ready to play. A certified massage therapist will focus on the high tension areas of the neck, shoulders, back, hands, and arms.  $20/15 min.  


More about Marley's Treats

Marley's Treats is a mom-owned Bay Area bakery. We offer cupcakes, cake pops, macarons and cakes for your birthdays, anniversaries, weddings, baptisms, company events & more! Learn more at

PLAY:  Book a Weekend Morning Play Pass as well so your child can play with your partner or caretaker during your massage! Or take advantage of our childcare in the playspace (by appointment). Recess' 3200 sq ft playspace is designed for ages 0-4yrs and a Play Pass includes playspace activities scheduled on the day of your visit. $20 for one child, $30 for two. 

Cultivating the Cultivator: Self Care All Year Through

...when your cup is full, it runs over to fill those around you.
— Aviva Jill Romm

Now that June is here and Mother's Day is over... the massage coupons have been used, the flowers have wilted, and the pedicure looks like it needs a touch-up, how do we keep this concept of self-care going throughout the year?

The other day, a friend texted me that she had just had surgery on her shoulder and was now spending the day in bed for the first time in 10 years. She told me this felt like the first day she truly “had off” since she had become a mother. I could relate to the feeling: several months ago, I had spent a day at the hospital and in some strange way, it felt like a retreat. This bothered me greatly. It seemed that everyone did survive without me that day, and it begged the question, "Why don’t I take a day off every once in a while? Why don’t I take a morning, an afternoon, anything?” I would readily hire a babysitter to go to work, to volunteer in my son’s class, even to run errands for the family, but when, if ever, did I hire a babysitter to sit in a cafe alone with my thoughts for an hour?

Self-care seems like a buzz word these days and often seems like one more thing we don’t have time for, or one more thing we are failing to accomplish. The past few years I have been trying (often desperately) to see it differently. Instead of a big hovering to-do list, I’ve been learning to see self-care as small acts of intention that we choose each day. When we make a point to extend the same care and respect we show our children and families to ourselves, we nourish ourselves. We are sending the vital message to our children that we are worth taking care of.

When we take the time to prepare a healthy meal for ourselves, instead of absently grazing as we hurry through our days, we are practicing self-care. When we make the time to care for our bodies through exercise, acupuncture, or even scheduling that dental check-up, we are practicing self-care. When we decide to take our kids on a walk through the Canyon instead of the playground they are begging for, because we know the time in nature will be more life-giving for us, we are practicing self-care. When we decide to put down our phone or computer and eat our lunch on a real plate, uninterrupted, or read a book, or go to bed early, we are practicing self-care. When we acknowledge that we can’t do it all, and we seek out support from others, we are practicing self-care.

And when we finally admit to ourselves that the “super mom” concept is as elusive as Wonder Woman herself, we are finally, I believe, heading down the road to better care of ourselves. As mothers, especially in this hectic, demanding chapter of raising young children, it can be very difficult to carve out protected time to care for ourselves. It can be helpful, then, to identify moments where we can care for ourselves in the midst of parenting. These small, ongoing moments of mindful self-care can keep us nourished year-round as we grow through this season of life.

About the author

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Rebecca Walsh- Founder and Director, Early Childhood Matters

Early Childhood Matters' founder and director, Rebecca Walsh is an early childhood expert and local mother of three. She has over twenty years of worldwide experience in the field of Child Development.

Rebecca's primary focus is helping parents to understand the developing brain of children, while providing methods to establish connection and effective positive discipline tools in the early years. Her passion is sharing with parents and caregivers the wisdom and experience she has gained from working as a director, lead teacher, supervisor, parent educator, teacher mentor, and most importantly as a parent of three young children. 

Rebecca has decades of experience: founding preschools internationally, developing early childhood and at-risk youth programs throughout the Bay Area, directing head start programs, and teaching and mentoring at Pacific Primary. She holds a Bachelor's degree in childhood development and a Master's in Religion and Psychology.

Since founding Early Childhood Matters in 2010, Rebecca has worked with parents throughout the Bay Area and beyond [from New Orleans, LA to Melbourne, Australia] to help them better understand and support them on their journey to nourish the minds and spirits of tomorrow’s world.

Learn more at and Keep an eye on Recess' Workshop Schedule for Rebecca's great workshops like Introducing a New Sibling, Your Willful Preschooler and Parenting through the Toddler Years.

Grown-Ups Need Recess Too!

Play keeps stress at bay, reduces waistlines & gives you the mindset to take on anything the world throws your way! 

And when you have kids, a lot of things get thrown your way.  

come play with us this summer



Special June Series - SATURdAYS

Mat Class - 9am
Prenatal Class - 10am

Pilates is great for everyone - expecting parents, brand new parents, and parents of older children alike.  Join us in June as we focus on core building, upper body strength training with restorative exercises for wrists & shoulders, tight hamstrings and sore feet. 

Pilates 3 Pack - $72 non-members, $60 members.  This pack allows you to attend 3 of the 4 classes in June. If you're able to make all four, add on that last class for just $20!



Join us June, July and August

Fridays at 5pm

This special yoga class is open to all levels and is the perfect end to your work week and beginning to your weekend.

Take an hour for yourself with the fabulous Katharine Otis before the weekend gets started!  

Special Summer Yoga 5 ClassPack: $80 non-members, $70 members. Attend any 5 Fridays June 2 - August 25.  Save even more with a 10 class pack $150 non-members, $135 members.   

Need Childcare?

Reserve your spot!  $6/hr for members, $12/hr non-members